I recently took part in a horse race, a first for me. This was not your typical horse race, mind you. I have not pivoted so far in my career as to transform into a jockey, but did find myself, while out for a casual bike ride, smack dab in the middle of competition with a Mennonite horse and buggy. How many can say that? (All of my neighbors in Amish country, lower your raised hands and quit stealing my thunder.)
Here’s the play by play as reported by the imaginary race announcer:
[Cue scene: Shonda dreamily biking along a windy country road…]
Hold on folks, what’s that up ahead? Why, it is a simple black horse and buggy carrying a Mennonite family home from church this beautiful Sunday afternoon! Shonda, with lightning fast reflexes, quickly registers that this road is not wide enough for both of them and begins to pedal more quickly, approaching on the left, smiling and nodding a friendly greeting to the family tucked cozily within: a young couple with their cute tossled-hair toddler and chubby blue-eyed baby nestled on their laps. (There is no direct acknowledgment with the horse — blinders and all. But he knows she is there.)
As the narrow road begins to incline upward there is no more time for exchanged pleasantries. Shonda, feeling the mounting pressure, must make a split decision to either fall in line behind the horse, potentially dodging road apples (that would be horse manure for you city dwellers) as if caught in the middle of a video game, or passing. Here comes the straight-away, what is she going to do, folks?
It looks like she is going for it! Shonda pedals harder and passes on the left. Pulling out in front, she takes the lead. The clip clop of horse hooves is close behind her. (I’m pretty sure the horse, a tired, old work horse, is taking it easy on her, but we won’t focus on that right now.) Shonda is giving it her all. She’s managing to stay out in front. And she does it! Shonda is victorious as she makes a sharp left off the race road, heading home to her family. What a glorious race to behold!
What does my horse racing tale have to do with anything, least of all mindfulness? Not a whole lot, I suppose, but it was much too fun and wonderful not to share. I do hope it convinces you to get outside, explore, and play — you never know what you might encounter right around the bend (neigh).
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Have a wonderful rest of your week!